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Monday, May 30, 2011

Myra, Our Guest



Myra, Our Guest


The weekend loomed ahead. I was in a state of limbo. Random thoughts like little pieces of paper would stick momentarily in my mind but nothing tangible to give it shape in writing. I guess I was afflicted by writer’s block. The rows of books on the shelf had lost its lure; music was unable to soothe my nerves. The movie buff in me was just not interested in staring at a screen and indulging in a celluloid world. Just as I was beginning to think how to while away my time in a more constructive way, my son throws this bombshell on Friday afternoon. On returning from school he asks me, “Ma can we keep my friend’s five month old pup for two days?” It was a surprise and not a very pleasant one because I knew my mom is not very fond of dogs and staying with her I had to follow some guidelines. Besides I was not in the mood to take on another responsibility even if that was for two days. But I didn’t have the heart to say “no” to my son, knowing how much he loves dogs and would do anything to have one in the house even if it is a temporary arrangement. Besides I thought it was only for the weekend and Ron can take care of the pup, I don’t want anything to do with her. It turned out our guest was to stay with us till Tuesday.

As luck would have it, Myra, our guest arrived when Ron was not in the house. I had to single handedly take on the responsibility of welcoming her. From the look in her eyes I could tell she was nervous and sad that she had to stay away from her mistress, namely Ron’s friend. I couldn't resist Myra, she had such a tender look that I fussed over her which prompted Ron’s friend to say “you really love dogs don’t you?” Yes I love dogs but having gone through a never ending nightmare with one a couple of years back had stripped me of all desires to have one again in this lifetime. I was so bitter and angry that despite having grown up with dogs in the house I no longer thought I had it in me to keep one again.

Myra adapted to her temporary dwelling quite effortlessly, after a little whining when her mistress left and she and I took to each other immediately. I played with her, wrestled with her, hugged her, kissed her and she in turn slobbered me till Ron came home. She was a bit shy initially with Ron but was soon following him around the house. Friday night was an exciting night for Myra in terms of the unknown. First she comes to stay amongst strangers then she gets to take a drive to my friend’s where we were going for dinner. I called my friend to tell her that I am bringing a guest with us. She tried guessing but I told her it was a surprise and what a surprise! The entire time we were there Myra was the center of attraction. She thoroughly made the most of her night out. She was so adorable!

She is the most well behaved pup I have come across. I was dreading her chewing up everything that came across her path. The first night we kept everything that could be chewed out of her reach but we realized that our fears were misplaced. All she needed was a ball that she could chew on and play with. As for soiling the house she would inform us by whining that she needed to go out and relieve herself.

I don’t know how the weekend flew. Every moment with her we were getting attached to her, both Ron and I would keep telling each other that she was just a guest who will leave soon and we shouldn’t get too fond of her. But we were totally in love with this beautiful Labrador pup.
Myra leaves tomorrow. I know we will miss her terribly but life goes on. I don’t even know if I will ever see her again but she was an angel who showered us with love and joy. She was like a balm to my frayed nerves; she was like a breath of fresh air with her unconditional love and her playfulness. She has healed me, she has filled me with her love so much that I am toying with the idea of having a dog in the house. Even my mother couldn’t help but notice how adorable and well behaved a pup she was. She would follow my mom despite all the discouragement. Somehow in these three days Myra has managed to wriggle herself into our hearts. I suppose we all needed a dose of love and so god sent us this angel to fill our days with laughter and a sense of purpose.


22 comments:

  1. Dogs are like that,they have a special way to find a place in your heart,I have always been a dog lover,and for me,they have been a part of the family. You will miss Myra,but atleast you were capable of giving so such love..But you are like that,Rimly..giving yourself selflessly to all..love u always.

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  2. Thank you sweetheart. You are the same, giving yourself selflessly. Myra stole my heart.

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  3. an unexpected guest usually turns one's whole life around... and it turns out to be a dog...:P... but not just "a' dog... i guess it's more the space you opened for this stranger that changed your life :)... well, God has His ways to let you know His love...;)...you're much an angel to myra as she were to you... love you much rimly :*

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  4. awww.. she's so cute! Nothing better than a dog I must say. Unconditional Love is what they are all about, especially when you treat them well and in our case too well...lol Glad to see you are feeling better too Rimly

    A

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  5. Yes Melissa, she was such an unexpected guest and an angel. Love you too Melissa.

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  6. Rimly - Nothing like doggie love to soothe an aching heart. Myra looks like an absolute darling and I'm glad you had the little angel with you for a while. Hopefully, someday soon you'll have one of your own. Till then you can borrow my Pablo :)
    (pabloboxer.blogspot.com). He's one of the best 'investments' we've made!

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  7. some one once pointed out that dog is god spelled backwards. i think it's his way to to show us how to love. thank you for this post and dog blessed god bless

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  8. She is adorable! We had a stray kitty that came here about a week ago. We decided to keep her. She is the softest thing ever. Amazing what an influence animals can have to improve your mood :)

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  9. What an adorable dog!! I'm so glad you opened up your house and heart to this dog, as you see it was an amazing experience. Needlesss to say, your son thinks you're the best Mom ever after doggie sitting for a few days. Hopefully soon you can adopt a dog for the family and lets pray it behaves like Myra. Nice post!!!

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  10. How adorable! I love black Labs! We have one now that is 9 & my constant companion! Tried to be a lap dog this am during a thunderstorm & he weighs 100+ lbs!

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  11. Hello Rimly:

    Looks like a nice pup. Dogs are such lovely animals. Mark Twain once wrote that if there was a Heaven it would surely be inhabited by dogs and no humans. In my weak moments >I believe that he was correct in his statement.

    Kind regards,
    Mike

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  12. I am in love with Myra too, and while I am writing this down, sparky is giving me dirty looks.I am a changed person because of my Dalmation and can understand how you are feeling. Beautiful post about healing and pure love.

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  13. I love the photo of her sleeping...those feet are so cute. It sounds like Myra came along just when everyone needed a big hug....and yes, unconditional love. What a surprise she was, you perceived one thing and you received an amazing gift...love and puppy kisses. Thank you Rimly....

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  14. It is amazing how dogs, cats and other animals can intertwine with our hearts. almost like an additional artery. It must be vet hard to let her go, I guess we should not be shocked to read about another guest soon a permanent guest


    http://jpweddingphotograpy.blogspot.com/2011/05/taking-snapshots-or-creating-images.html

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  15. Thank you A. True nothing like unconditional love.

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  16. @Roy thank you and God bless you too. Dogs indeed are god sent.
    @Nelieta animals are amazing because they are not complicated like us human beings. Thank you for your comment.

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  17. David I hope so too that I can have one of our won soon. I know Ron needs to have one. Thank you for sharing your thoughts

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  18. Hi Ann thank you for your comments. I believe Labs are the best family dogs besides Golden Retrievers. I love dogs!

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  19. the jet black shinny look and the bright eyes.......uff! i wish he was my guest. you are so lucky Rimly. your post proves that any bond with unconditional love and clarity is for ever. it always remains close to the heart with a deep feeling of togetherness. Myra is one such lucky bond.

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  20. @Mike I agree with you and Twain. Thank you
    @Sulekha thank you. Give a big huh to Sparky from me
    @Ravemyth, the love and puppy kisses gave me so much of happiness. Thank you for commenting
    @Jim I hope like you say that soon I will be writing about a permanent guest. :) Thank you
    @Sancheeta you are right, when you love truly and without any fetters you get back love double fold. I am sure someday you too will yourself with a guest to shower love. Thank you

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  21. Rimley,
    I'm here Wooooooo Hooooo
    Aweee I loved this story Doggies have a way of walking into your life and warming the cockles of your heart.. Lab are the greatest. I wish humans were capable of having unconditional love the way a pup does.
    xoxo
    Jess
    Now on to the next post I have missed
    Love you

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  22. Hello darling Jessica, great to see you here. it was a pleasure having Myra with us. xoxo

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